What is sex, really? It’s not a penis going into a vagina. Nor is it a penis going into an orifice. Nor is it the touching of sexual organs. Sex is the pleasure obtained from arousal and intimacy. Without that, it’s a gynecologist appointment. So sticking your dick in someone means nothing. Gets you nothing. Absent the arousal and intimacy, it’s just an unhygienic gynecologist appointment. Not only is sticking yourself in someone not right to do without their enthusiastic participation, it’s not even sex. Most of the things a person would really want from sex that they couldn’t get from masturbation—emotional comfort, ego reinforcement, social status, physical closeness—are not things you can take by force. I would like to spread the meme that rape isn’t getting laid by unethical means, it’s not getting laid at all.
sex = intimacy = into-me-I-see
(via androphilia)
